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Family discipleship is our heartbeat.

The Disciple-Making Parent ministry exists to equip parents, grandparents, and church leaders to pass the gospel to their children and youth.

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A History of The Disciple-Making Parent

The Disciple-Making Parent ministry has grown out of my story.

I grew up in a Christian home in Birmingham, Alabama. I believe I genuinely came to Christ at an early age. However, intellectual questions in my high school years almost sunk my faith. I know what it is like to wrestle with doubts. Thankfully, those questions were answered as a college student by the Christian campus group at Brown University.

Given the need of New England for the gospel, I felt called to stay and help plant a church in the RI area. Columbia International University and The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary gave me my theological training.

Along the way God blessed me with wife, Sharon, and four beautiful children. He also brought great friends who also wanted to disciple their children. But when we looked around, we saw some great Christian parenting resources but not much to help us pass the gospel baton to our children.

And so, with our friends, we began reading, thinking, and praying. These insights form the basis of our seminars and writing. They come from 25 years of preaching, studying the Word, and studying our children. We have made every kind of mistake there is. But by God’s grace, we believe God has given us some insight as well.

In 2012, after 25 years of pastoring this church, God clearly called us to step out in faith and pursue the ministry of The Disciple-Making Parent (formerly The Apollos Project) full-time.

Important Dates in Our Timeline

2008

Sharon and Chap kneel on the beach in SC and pray for God’s blessing on the idea he is giving us. The Apollos Project is incorporated.

2013

Chap feels called to leave his church, step out in faith, and serve full time with The Apollos Project.

2016

The Disciple-Making Parent book released.

2017

Start exhibiting at conferences to reach church leaders around the nation.

2018

Podcast starts. Release The Donut Date Journal and The Donut Date Journal 2.

2019

Develop and release our first video series, Parenting with Patience.

2020

Develop and release our second video series, Parenting with Confidence.

2021

Rename The Apollos Project to The Disciple-Making Parent to more clearly communicate our purpose.

2022

The Disciple-Making Parent is translated into Spanish, and The Disciple-Making Parent Audioblog is launched.

2023

The Disciple-Making Parent printed in Latin America.

2024

Launch book released, The Disciple-Making Parent is printed in South Africa, and the first DMP conference outside of North America is held in Medellin, Colombia.

2025

Managing Your Households Well is published. Disciple-Making Parent conferences are held in South Africa, Germany, and Kenya.

Featured Interview with Focus on the Family

In this interview, we discussed the following:

  • Why Christian parenting is counter-cultural.
  • Practical things that should alert you that you’re creating a child-centered family.
  • Defining Pharisee parenting where moms and dads need to be sure their walk with the Lord is solid before preaching to their kids.
  • Three common myths moms and dads have about discipling their children.
  • Encouragement to parents who feel like they have already failed in their parenting.