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Chap Bettis

Aug 27
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A Short Q&A on Biblical Parenting and Family Discipleship – Chap Bettis

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On this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast Chap Bettis sits down with associate pastor Travis Rymer for a candid conversation about biblical parenting and family discipleship. They discuss the goal of Christian parenting, why parents may hesitate to ask for help, whether it’s possible to over-disciple children, and how the local church can support families. Along the way, Chap offers encouragement to rely on God, seek wisdom with humility, cultivate joyful homes, and keep the true “North Star” of parenting in view: raising children who love Jesus and help others follow Him. Podcast Transcript Chap Bettis:  I'm Chap Bettis, and…
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Aug 17
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How to Help Your Children Build Relationships with Christian Mentors

By Church Life, Parenting: Teens and Beyond
Studies show that one of the most significant factors in a young person walking with the Lord is a quality relationship with a parent or mentor. How can we encourage these relationships in the church? Family-Initiated MentorsOne way to connect others involves helping parents realize the importance of these relationships. Often parents are so busy “doing the next thing” that they are not looking at the bigger picture. But if parents realized how vital these connections are, they would be motivated to find mentors or prayer partners for their children. They will take initiative and make connections themselves.Youth group training material often encourages there…
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Aug 17
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What the Bible Says About Spending Less Than You Earn

By Christian Living, Scripture & Scripture Lists
The Bible encourages us to live below our means and not spend all that we earn. I have recently needed this list to help a young man. Maybe it will help with your children as well. There is a lot more that could be said on this issue: being good managers of God’s resources, self-control, contentment, and not caring what others think. But here are few quick verses. Precious treasure and oil are in a wise man's dwelling, but a foolish man devours it (Proverbs 21:20). This is a key verse. Foolishness devours all we have. Wisdom shows restraint and saving.Go to the ant,…
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Aug 12
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Psalm 127 – Seeking God’s Blessings – Chap Bettis

By Christian Living, Podcast
On this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, you’ll hear a recent sermon I preached on Psalm 127. In it, I ask a simple, searching question: what does it look like to actively seek God’s blessing in everyday life? We'll look at the danger of anxious, self-reliant “in vain” work and the comfort of God’s providence that lets us labor faithfully and still rest. Then we'll turn to the second half of the psalm and considers why Scripture calls children a gift from the Lord, how our culture often treats children as a burden, and how the church can cultivate…
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Aug 10
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Pure and Undefiled Religion

By Christian Living, Family Discipleship
Religion that is pure and undefiled before God the Father is this: to visit orphans and widows in their affliction and to keep oneself unstained from the world. James 1:27 As I write this, I am on a plane to visit my 92-year-old mother who increasingly is suffering from serious dementia. Before I left, I asked my wife what she had planned for the week. Among her many plans was to visit her mentor, the widow of a deceased friend and former elder. This godly woman now lives in an assisted living facility because of numerous health issues. Why do I tell…
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May 29
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The Brilliance of Deuteronomy 6:7- Or Doing Family Discipleship in the Ordinary

By Family Discipleship, Parenting: Childhood, Parenting: Early Years, Parenting: Teens and Beyond
In many ways, teaching and talking about the Scriptures is the bull’s-eye of family discipleship. In Matthew 28:18-20, Jesus instructs us to make disciples by baptizing them (that is evangelizing them and bringing them into the church) and teaching them to obey all that he commanded. But how do we do that as parents with all the other demands or cultural expectations? Our children have school, sports, music, and other activities. That’s not to mention duties we have as parents. We need to go to work. We should stay connected to our parents and in-laws. Our house and car need to be…
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May 27
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Tim Challies – Deep Thinking About Helping Our Family with Technology

By Christian Living, Family Discipleship, Podcast
On this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, we talk with Tim Challies about how Christian families can think clearly about technology in a world where screens, social media, and now AI are everywhere. We look at the real numbers shaping teen life, the risks that often stay hidden until it is too late, and three common responses to new tools: enthusiastic embrace, strict separation, and disciplined discernment. We also explore a distinctly Christian framework for technology. We are image-bearers called to create and use tools for good, while recognizing how sin twists every technology toward harm and idolatry. Finally,…
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May 06
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How Should Christians Think About Patriotism? – Dan Darling

By Discerning Culture, Podcast
On this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, we talk with Dan Darling about what healthy Christian patriotism looks like. We unpack why love of country can be an expression of gratitude and a part of discipleship, and how we can teach children and grandchildren to think biblically about their nation without slipping into cynicism or idolatry. We discuss how to tell the full story of history, including real sins and real progress, and why reform is strongest when it grows out of love for a country’s ideals. We also clarify the difference between patriotism and Christian nationalism, and why…
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Apr 01
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Suffering and Our Savior – Tim Challies

By Christian Living, Family Discipleship, Podcast
On this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, we begin a new series by listening to Tim Challies as he helps us think biblically about suffering, sorrow, and the compassion of Christ. We walk through Luke 7:11–17, where Jesus meets a grieving widow in Nain and raises her son, and we’re reminded of three simple, steady truths: death is strong, God is stronger, and one day death itself will die. As we listen, we’re encouraged to trust God’s good purposes in our pain, to remember that Jesus draws near to the brokenhearted, and to anchor our hope in the future…
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Mar 18
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Biblical Conflict Resolution Part 4 – The Call to Forgive, Handle Difficult People, and Think Properly About Boundaries – Chap Bettis

By Christian Living, Podcast
On this episode of The Disciple-Making Parent Podcast, we start unpacking three hard topics that come up in conflict: forgiveness, reconciliation, and what some people call boundaries. We walk through a simple peacemaking framework, then clarify two complementary kinds of forgiveness: a heart-level decision to release the moral debt to God, and a relational forgiveness that enables reconciliation when repentance is present. We also talk about how to love people who will not repent, including how to stay open-hearted while setting wise limits that separate wisdom from folly, and how to rebuild trust proportionally over time. Along the way, we…
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