Wow is this article on target!
In it, the author argues that marriage should change us:
1. From Selfishness to Service
2. From Laziness to Engagement
3. From Pride to Humility
Has marriage caused you to see your selfishness more and actively serve? Has the gospel caused you to move from laziness to engagement? As you see your sin, have you become more humble and seen your need of the gospel more? Marriage is intended to make us more like Jesus. But we have to see those trials as from him!